Spoonful of Slater Blog

  • A Life Unexpected

    A Life Unexpected

    My life story, continually evolving, looks so different than what I thought it would be. At this point, I’m not even sure WHAT I thought it would be. I saw this image today, so I wanted to share, because it resonated with me. I bet many of us can’t even believe how we got to…

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  • I’m Not Ready

    Today, as I contemplated giving my daughter’s Barbie collection away, I found myself unable to part with them. My daughter, on the other hand, would never even notice. She is done with them. After all, they’ve been boxed in the attic for almost a year now. But I am attached. This attachment, I realize, is

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  • Meaningless…Not a Bad Thing?

    I was looking for inspiration and found what might be serious depression! But, I turned it around. Read how!

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  • Cut it Out

    Cut it Out

    It started with me cutting my hair with paper scissors, but it’s leading to something more. What that is, I don’t know. But I’m ready for it!

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  • Be Better?

    Be Better?

    How can we make this year better? Let’s be better to ourselves by being better to those around us.

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  • Be Your Own Best Friend

    Be Your Own Best Friend

    I just recently learned to be alone, and I’m now embracing it–maybe too much. I have become my own best friend. I talk to myself, go on walks in the woods alone, watch TV shows solo, have wine by myself. I am alone. I was afraid of this at one time. I was afraid of

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  • Misery is Optional

    Misery is Optional

    I heard a quote the other day, and it is jarring in its simplicity and utility: Misery is Optional. It really is–it’s a state of mind, a choice. What??! This sort of blew my mind! Obviously, there are exceptions. But, how you frame something in your mind can make all the difference.

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  • A Little Crooked Spoon

    A Little Crooked Spoon

    I will keep this spoon as a reminder to myself that it’s okay to be different, and veering off to the side of the road, taking a break, or choosing an alternate path, is sometimes where you find the magic

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  • On Adulting

    On Adulting

    A contemplation of adulting, aging, and wanting to go back in time. Or freeze it.

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  • Time Changes Everything, and You.

    With exposure, and practice, you can overcome your trepidations and stretch yourself beyond what you think is imaginable. Try it. You’d be surprised what you’re capable of.

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